How “Finfluencers” Are Quietly Shaping Your Financial Decisions—and What Couples Need to Know
Finfluencers tell you what to do with your money. They seem confident and certain. They proclaim to be rich themselves and know how to pull the social media levers to lead people to their accounts.
Many Finfluencers that I've seen don't know what they're talking about, yet a recent report from The Decision Lab found that more than one in three people have made a financial decision based on social media advice.
Why Finfluencers are Effective
Nuance is boring. It takes a foundational understanding of various concepts and more than 30 seconds to explain. But in personal finance (and politics), the most important decisions are full of nuance.
Nuance is also circumstantial, and when circumstances vary, fewer people can relate. Finfluencers know this and promote wealth-building as simple and fast, ignoring nuance. Their confidence taps into a well-documented psychological phenomenon called the specificity effect, or precision bias.
Unfortunately, emotionally charged or negative messaging spreads faster and sticks longer. That's why social media can be a cesspool for folks looking for solutions.
Finfluencer Red Flags
Dubious advice
Free offers
Investing booklets or investing/crypto training courses
A sense of urgency
Fear of Missing Out (FOMO)
Peer pressure
The Missing Safeguards
Most people overlook an important distinction between financial professionals and finfluencers. Professional designations exist in the financial industry for a reason. They ensure clients get guidance from individuals who are trained and, at a minimum, required to make recommendations suitable to their situation.
Some designations go even further. As a Certified Financial Therapist™, I am held to a fiduciary standard that requires me to put the client’s interests ahead of my own, but none of these safeguards exist on social media.
Finfluencers could be highly knowledgeable, but entirely self-serving. Most are incentivized by the engagement (clicks and comments) that lead to creator pay from Meta, TikTok, or the like. Others promote high-fee and commission-based products that serve them well, but not us.
The Hidden Risk for Couples
People who act on finfluencer advice are more likely to take risks, trade frequently, and experience losses. They are also less likely to work with a financial professional.
The risk in a relationship is when a partner is duped by a Finfluencer. That partner has two options: admit the mistake, which can feel shameful, or commit financial infidelity.
Social Media Doesn’t Just Inform—It Changes Behavior
Researchers found that participants exposed to financial content were significantly more likely to invest in the promoted assets. Nearly a quarter of those exposed made those purchases, compared to just 7% of those who were not.
FINRA found that young investors are increasingly exposed to and influenced by make-believe investing experts on social media and are more at risk of fraud.
What Actually Helps Protect You
Researchers have identified these strategies to reduce the influence of misleading financial content. The Department of Financial Protection and Innovation provides the following recommendations to protect yourself:
"Credentials Check – If the finfluencer claims to hold a financial certification or designation of any kind, check to see if the certification or designation comes from an accredited organization and if they are currently in good standing.
Show Me the Data – Some finfluencers build their following by promising “to the moon” stock picks or investment strategies regularly. If they only promote their amazing results, they are likely too good to be true. Ask for the data to back up their claims.
Do Your Research – Before investing, do your own independent research outside of taking advice from a finfluencer. Taking advice from unlicensed financial advisors is problematic, especially if they target you with scams or fraud.
Only Invest Money You Can Afford to Lose – When considering investments in crypto assets or other types of high-risk investment products or services, never pay in cash and never take out a loan to pay for an investment. If your investment goes bad, you’ll have no recourse to reclaim your payments, or worse, you’ll be stuck paying off a debt for a worthless asset.
Keep Records – Keep thorough records of who you are investing with, including their full legal name, affiliate organization, and contact information, and how much you are investing and on what dates. Should you get into trouble, this information will be helpful to file a complaint or to try to get your money back."
A Better Approach for Couples
Couples are best served by creating a framework for how they respond to financial content creators, or unfollow them entirely.
Start with the pause rule: don't make any financial decision based on social media without taking time to evaluate it together. Discuss whether an idea that sounds good on social media aligns with their goals. Consider the potential downside and whether reliable evidence supports the claim.
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