101 Tips for Being a Better Husband

Brian Page
May 1
20 min read

Being a better husband is a continuous journey of communication, support, and growth. Modern marriage thrives on equality and teamwork.

What follows are 101 practical tips for being a better husband organized into key categories:

Communication
Shared Responsibilities
Financial Partnership
Emotional Intelligence
Growth

Each tip is a short piece of advice that any husband can apply, whether you’re a newlywed or decades into marriage.

Communication (21 Tips)

Listen actively to your partner. Give them your full attention without interrupting or formulating your response mid-way – this ensures they feel truly heard.
Speak with respect, even in conflict. Keep your tone calm and courteous during disagreements. Avoid yelling, insults, or harsh sarcasm so that discussions stay productive and kind.
Use “I” statements instead of “You” blame. Express your feelings by focusing on your perspective (e.g. “I feel hurt when...” instead of “You always...”). This lowers defensiveness and helps your spouse understand you better.
Choose the right time to talk. Don’t bring up serious or sensitive issues in the heat of the moment or when either of you is tired or stressed. Schedule important conversations for a calm time when you can both focus.
Be open and honest. Share your thoughts and feelings transparently – even the vulnerable ones. Honest communication, delivered gently, builds mutual trust and understanding.
Avoid defensiveness. If your spouse voices a concern or criticism, resist the urge to shoot back with excuses or counter-accusations. First acknowledge their point and show you’re considering it.
Never resort to name-calling or contempt. Criticizing your partner’s character or showing contempt (eye-rolling, mocking) is like poison to a conversation. Focus on the issue at hand, not personal attacks.
Practice active listening. Reflect back what you hear (“It sounds like you’re upset because…”). Validate your partner’s feelings, even if you see things differently – let them know you understand where they’re coming from.
Ask questions and be curious. Encourage your spouse to share by asking follow-up questions. Showing genuine curiosity about their viewpoint (instead of just waiting for your turn to talk) keeps communication open.
Express appreciation frequently. Don’t assume your partner knows what you love about them – say it! Aim for many positive comments for each negative one. A simple “Thank you for doing that” or compliment goes a long way in making both of you feel valued.
Say “I love you” and other kind words daily. Verbal affection shouldn’t disappear with time. Regularly affirm your love, give compliments, and speak kindly to nurture warmth in your marriage.
Share everyday life. Talk about how each other’s day went, and actually listen to the answer. Staying involved in the little details of each other’s lives keeps you connected and shows you care.
Keep your promises. If you say you’ll do something (like fix the sink or call at a certain time), follow through. Being reliable in your words is a form of communication that says “You can trust me.”
Apologize sincerely when you’re wrong. It takes humility and courage to say “I’m sorry.” A genuine apology (with no “but” attached) can defuse hurt feelings and shows that you value your partner’s happiness over your pride.
Avoid the silent treatment. If you’re upset and need a cooldown period, communicate that – say “I need a little time to think, but let’s talk later.” Don’t just shut down; silence can feel very punitive.
Use humor to lighten the mood. Inside jokes or a bit of light-hearted humor can ease tension when appropriate. Just be sure the jokes are not at your partner’s expense. Laughing with your spouse is bonding; laughing at them is not.
Address small issues before they fester. Kindly bring up the little annoyances (“Let’s figure out a system for dirty laundry”) so they don’t turn into big resentments. However, also learn to choose your battles – not every minor thing needs to become an argument.
Frame problems as “us vs. the problem.” Approach challenges as teammates. Instead of blaming each other, tackle the issue together. For example, “How can we manage our schedules better?” makes it a joint effort.
Don’t aim to “win” arguments. In a marriage, if one person wins and the other loses, you both lose. The goal should be mutual understanding or a compromise you can both accept. Focus on resolution, not victory.
Have regular check-ins. Consider setting aside time weekly or monthly to ask, “How are we doing?” Use this time to share what’s going well in the relationship and gently discuss any concerns. These check-ins can prevent issues from piling up.
Balance talking and listening. Great communication isn’t just about expressing yourself – it’s equally about listening. Make sure you’re giving your partner as much space to speak as you take. This balance helps both of you feel valued in the conversation.

Shared Responsibilities (20 Tips)

Share the household workload. A modern husband actively participates in chores and family duties, rather than “helping” occasionally. When both partners split the load at home, it fosters equality and mutual respect.
Avoid imbalance in chores. If you both work outside the home, be conscious not to let one person do most of the work inside the home. An uneven division of housework quickly breeds resentment and conflict.
Discuss and divide tasks fairly. Sit down together and decide who will handle which household responsibilities. Don’t let traditional gender roles decide this for you – create a plan that feels equitable to both of you.
Remember that chores matter to marriage success. Research has found that sharing household chores is one of the top indicators of a happy marriage (ranking right up there with fidelity and good intimacy). Taking out the trash or doing laundry isn’t trivial – it’s love in action.
Take initiative at home. Don’t always wait to be asked or reminded about what needs to be done. If you see the sink full of dishes or the grass getting long, step up and handle it. Initiative shows you’re truly sharing responsibility, not just responding to requests.
Share the mental load too. It’s not just about physical chores – tasks like remembering to buy groceries, planning meals, scheduling kids’ doctor appointments, or keeping track of school events count too. Make sure one person isn’t bearing all the organizing and remembering.
Be flexible and supportive with chores. If your partner is having an unusually busy or rough week, step in to cover more tasks so they don’t have to worry about it. Trade off and adjust the division of labor during stressful times – that’s what teammates do.
Use tools to stay organized. Consider a shared calendar, app, or chore chart to coordinate home responsibilities. For example, some couples use apps to list tasks and send reminders, so both can see what needs doing. Find a system that works for you and stick to it.
Ditch “men’s work” vs “women’s work.” Embrace an egalitarian outlook that no chore is beneath or beyond you. Cook dinner, do laundry, bathe the kids, and also fix things around the house – both of you can handle all sorts of tasks when needed.
Be an equal parent. If you have children, don’t babysit – parent. Change diapers, attend parent-teacher conferences, read bedtime stories, and schedule pediatrician visits. Fathers are not “helpers” but equal parents, and your active involvement strengthens your bond with both your kids and your spouse.
Respect your partner’s way of doing things. If your spouse folds the towels differently than you would or loads the dishwasher “wrong,” let it be. Criticizing or redoing the chores they’ve done will make them feel their efforts aren’t valued – and that’s a fast way to discourage them from wanting to do it at all.
Revisit your game plan periodically. Life changes (new jobs, a new baby, kids’ schedules, etc.) can throw off a once-fair division of labor. Regularly check in with each other about how the household workload feels. If one of you is overwhelmed, redistribute tasks as needed so neither burns out.
Keep learning household skills. Don’t default certain tasks to your spouse just because you’re not “good” at them. If you can’t cook, learn a few staple recipes. If you’ve never handled the budget or the laundry, have your partner show you. Competence can be learned, and it shows commitment that you’re willing to grow.
Appreciate what your spouse does. Notice and acknowledge the work your partner puts into keeping your home and family running. A simple “You did a great job organizing the closet, thank you!” or “Dinner was delicious” makes your spouse feel seen and valued. Appreciation fuels more positive teamwork.
Know that help at home can be the best gift. If you want to do something really meaningful for your wife, do some extra chores! In one survey, a group of wives unanimously said they’d prefer their husbands do more housework as a gift, rather than receive any material present. Pitching in more is a powerful way to show love.
Plan household management together. Maybe one of you is naturally more organized – that’s great, but still involve the other in planning. Sit together to map out the week’s meals, the kids’ pickup schedule, or the home improvement projects for the month. Working as a team on these plans ensures you’re both in the loop and invested.
Don’t frame it as “helping” your wife. The house, the meals, the kids – they’re not solely her responsibility. When you do chores, you’re not doing her a favor; you’re doing your rightful share as an adult in the household. This mindset change is crucial for true partnership.
Model equality for your children. If you have kids, let them see that Mom and Dad both cook, clean, do laundry, and go to work. Children who see both parents share duties learn to expect fairness in their own relationships and understand that a happy home is a team effort.
Surprise your spouse by taking a task off their plate. Once in a while, do something that is usually their chore, especially if you know they dislike it. Whether it’s cleaning the bathroom or dealing with a tedious errand, doing it unasked is a loving gesture that shows you notice and care.
Value all contributions – financial or domestic. Recognize that earning money is not the only way to support the family. Cooking dinner or caring for a sick child is just as important as a paycheck. Likewise, if your wife earns more or works longer hours, balance that by handling more at home. Both financial provision and household labor are valuable contributions that you should balance together.

Related: Click here to read our Household Chores articles.

Financial Partnership (20 Tips)

Make financial decisions as a team. Even if one of you tends to handle the bills or investing, both partners should be involved in major money decisions. Ensure you both have an equal voice in budgeting, spending, and planning – no one person should unilaterally call the shots.
Set shared financial goals. Talk about your dreams and plans – buying a home, traveling, starting a business, saving for kids’ college, or retirement timelines. Outline these goals together and plan how to achieve them together, so you’re both committed to the same financial future.
Schedule regular “money dates.” Just as you plan fun dates, plan financial check-ins. Maybe once a month, sit down in a relaxed setting to review the budget, upcoming expenses, or progress on savings. Keeping these talks routine (and even enjoyable, like over coffee or wine) ensures finances stay transparent and stress is lower.
Be transparent about money. Honesty is crucial – share information about your income, debts, savings, and expenses. Hidden debts or secret splurges can erode trust. Being open about money, even when it’s uncomfortable, means you face challenges together and avoid unpleasant surprises.
Create a budget together. Decide as a couple how much will be allocated to needs, savings, and wants. When you both agree on a budget, you’re less likely to argue about spending because you’ve set the expectations together. Revisit the budget periodically and adjust as your situation changes.
Divide financial tasks by strengths. It might work for you to split money duties – for example, one handles day-to-day bill paying and the other manages long-term investments. That’s great, as long as you’re comfortable with the arrangement. Use each person’s skills to your advantage, but keep each other informed and involved in big decisions.
Ensure both partners are financially literate. Even if one person takes the lead on finances, the other should know the basics of what’s going on. Make sure you both know how to log into accounts, pay bills, and understand where your money is invested. This way, either of you could manage if necessary, and both feel equal ownership.
Respect each other’s money style. If one of you is a saver and the other a spender, acknowledge those tendencies and find a middle ground. Perhaps set a limit on impulse buys or agree that large purchases will be discussed. Understanding and accommodating your differences in money habits will reduce friction.
Don’t let money equal power in your marriage. Earning more money doesn’t entitle one partner to dictate the financial choices. Adopt an egalitarian approach – all income is “family money” and both of you deserve an equal say in how it’s used. Decisions should reflect both partners’ needs and values, not just who earned the dollars.
Stay united regardless of income differences. If your wife earns more than you, embrace it as a team advantage, not a threat. Likewise, if you’re the higher earner, never use that to control or belittle your spouse. Keep a mindset that you’re building a life together, and both contributions are vital – income and home management just complement each other.
Discuss big purchases in advance. Agree on a threshold (for example, any purchase over $X) that you’ll consult each other about. This practice ensures neither of you feels blindsided by a large expense and reinforces that you respect each other’s input on significant spending.
Tackle debt together. It’s easy to slip into blaming each other over money troubles (“You spend too much” or “You ran up these credit cards”). Instead, frame debt as a shared challenge. Work out a plan to reduce it side by side – celebrate small victories like paying off a credit card, and keep supporting each other through the process.
Celebrate financial milestones. When you reach a money goal – whether it’s sticking to your budget for three months, boosting your credit score, or saving up an emergency fund – acknowledge it and celebrate as a couple. Treat yourselves in a modest way. Recognizing progress keeps you both motivated and on the same page.
Be empathetic during money talks. Money is an emotional topic for many people. If your partner is anxious or has past financial trauma, approach discussions with patience and empathy. For example, if one of you grew up with very little, they might be extra nervous about spending. Validate each other’s feelings and work through differences with understanding.
Align spending with your values. Talk about what financial security and prosperity mean to each of you. Maybe travel is something you both treasure, or perhaps saving for a home is a priority. Make sure your spending and saving plan reflects the things you both value most – this way, sacrifices in less important areas feel worthwhile.
Plan for the future together. Don’t leave retirement planning, insurance decisions, or estate planning to one person. Discuss these long-term plans openly. Decide things like how much to invest for retirement, whether to buy life insurance, and how you’ll secure your family’s future together, so both of you feel secure and heard.
Allow personal spending freedom. Consider giving each partner a small “no questions asked” monthly allowance that they can spend on anything they want. This way, you both have a bit of independence and fun money, which can reduce conflicts about trivial purchases. Many couples find that having some individual discretionary money helps maintain balance.
Find a system that works for both of you. There’s no single right way to manage married finances – some couples merge everything, others keep accounts partially separate. The key is that you both agree and feel comfortable with the approach. Whether you choose joint accounts, a yours-mine-ours hybrid system, or something in between, ensure it promotes trust and cooperation.
Support each other’s career and education. Being a financial partner also means encouraging your spouse’s earning potential and personal development. If your wife wants to go back to school or start a business, discuss how you can budget and adjust to support that goal. Likewise, share your own career aspirations. Investing in each other’s growth often benefits the marriage financially and emotionally.
Be responsible and avoid financial secrets. Responsibility in a partnership means paying bills on time, living within your means, and not hiding financial mistakes. If you do mess up (like overspend or forget a bill), own it and work together on a solution. Strive to be someone your spouse can count on to be honest and diligent with money – it’s a huge trust builder in marriage.

Related: Click here to read our Relationships and Family money articles.

Emotional Intelligence (20 Tips)

Practice empathy. Make it a habit to put yourself in your spouse’s shoes and truly consider their feelings in every situation. Empathy is one of the most powerful ways to show love – when your partner feels understood, it strengthens your emotional bond.
Manage your own emotions. Pay attention to what you’re feeling and learn healthy ways to cope. If you’re angry or upset, take a pause or deep breath before responding. By regulating your emotions (instead of unleashing them), you prevent unnecessary hurt and keep discussions constructive.
Encourage your partner to open up. Show that you’re a safe space for your spouse’s feelings. When they’re upset or stressed, listen without jumping to judgment or immediately trying to fix things. Sometimes just being there and saying “I’m here for you, tell me what’s on your mind” is all they need.
Be vulnerable yourself. Emotional intimacy is a two-way street. Share your fears, anxieties, and hopes with your wife so she can understand and support you too. It might be hard to lower your guard, but open communication and vulnerability are vital for a deep connection.
Stay calm in conflicts. Raising your voice or rushing to anger can escalate a small disagreement into a big fight. Practice staying calm and speaking respectfully when you have a conflict. If you feel yourself losing your cool, suggest a short break and come back to the discussion once you’re calmer – this is a mature way to manage emotions during disagreements.
Don’t personalize every emotion. If your partner is in a bad mood or snaps at you after a long day, remember it might not be about you. They could be dealing with their own stress or fatigue. Instead of getting offended, offer compassion: “You seem upset – anything I can do, or do you need some time to unwind?”
Accept influence and feedback. Part of emotional intelligence is humility – recognizing that your spouse might see something about you that you can improve. Rather than reacting defensively if they bring up a concern, try to see the merit in what they’re saying. Thank them for being honest and use it as a chance to grow.
Learn your partner’s emotional needs. Pay attention to what comforts or uplifts your spouse. Do they appreciate hugs when they’re down, or do they prefer space to think? When they’re stressed, do they like to talk it out or have quiet time? Tailoring your support to what they truly need shows great emotional awareness and care.
Respect boundaries. If your partner says “I need a moment alone” or is clearly not ready to talk about something, respect that. Everyone processes emotions differently. By giving them space when needed, and not pushing, you show respect for their emotional boundaries and autonomy.
Cultivate patience. Patience is a form of emotional generosity. If your spouse is struggling with something (a personal challenge, a new habit, an illness), be patient as they work through it. Avoid saying “Just get over it” or rushing them. Your steady support, even when progress is slow, demonstrates unconditional love.
Offer emotional support. Sometimes being a great husband means being a steady shoulder to lean on. If your spouse is anxious, discouraged, or sad, reassure them that you’re there. This could mean listening intently, giving a comforting embrace, or simply sitting together silently. Knowing that you’re reliably by her side through emotional ups and downs is tremendously comforting.
Keep things positive where you can. A positive attitude can be contagious. That doesn’t mean you ignore problems, but try to infuse hope and optimism into your life together. Celebrate good news, find silver linings in setbacks, and use humor appropriately to lighten heavy moments. A dose of positivity helps get through tough times together.
Show physical affection (if your partner is open to it). A gentle touch can often convey empathy and caring more than words. Holding hands, a hug, a back rub, or a cuddle on the couch can all communicate “I love you and I’m here for you.” Be attentive to what kind of affection your spouse is comfortable with, and initiate warmth in your daily life.
Recognize stress signals. Learn to notice when your spouse is nearing their limit. Maybe they get quiet, or headaches flare up, or they seem extra irritated – these can be signs of stress. When you see those signals, try to ease their burden: offer to handle a task, run a hot bath, or just ask, “What do you need right now?” Being attuned to these cues shows emotional sensitivity.
Listen more than you talk when emotions run high. If your spouse is venting about something that upset them, resist the urge to interrupt with advice or your own story. First, let them pour it out. Nod, say “I understand,” or “that sounds really tough.” Often, people feel better just by feeling heard and will ask for your input if they want it.
Resist the fix-it impulse. Especially common for men is the urge to immediately solve your partner’s problem when they’re distressed. But unless they specifically ask for solutions, what most people want is empathy, not a fix. So before you brainstorm answers, ask, “Do you want my advice or do you just need to vent? I’m happy to do either.” This shows emotional attunement to their needs.
Adapt to your partner’s love language. People feel loved in different ways (words, actions, gifts, time, touch). Notice what makes your spouse light up. Maybe she values thoughtful gestures over fancy words, or vice versa. Use this insight to express love in the ways that resonate most with her. It’s a smart way to be emotionally effective in showing you care.
Challenge stereotypes about masculinity. A modern, confident husband knows that being caring and emotionally present enhances your manhood, it doesn’t diminish it. Don’t let outdated ideas stop you from being gentle, expressive, or nurturing. In fact, embracing these qualities is a sign of strength and security in who you are.
Work on self-improvement. If you know you have emotional hang-ups – like a quick temper, difficulty expressing yourself, or lingering insecurities – take steps to address them. Read self-help books, follow Modern Husbands or other resources that offer guidance, or even seek counseling if needed. Becoming more emotionally intelligent is a lifelong journey, and any effort you invest will pay off in your marriage.
Forgive and let go. Emotional intelligence also means not holding onto grudges. When your spouse apologizes for a mistake, truly forgive them and move forward. Likewise, forgive yourself for past missteps once you’ve made amends. Clean the emotional slate regularly; it’s hard to grow together if one of you is stuck in old resentment. Showing compassion – both for your partner and yourself – keeps love healthy and resilient.

Growth (20 Tips)

Never stop dating your spouse. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean romance should fade. Keep courting each other with regular date nights, weekend getaways, or even simple at-home dinner dates. Continuing to date – sharing fun experiences and quality time – keeps the spark alive and strengthens your connection.
Support each other’s dreams. If your wife wants to change careers, go back to school, or start a new hobby, cheer her on wholeheartedly. Be the partner who says “You can do it, and I’ll help however I can.” And share your aspirations with her as well. Encouraging and celebrating each other’s personal growth is a hallmark of a strong, modern marriage.
Stay curious about your partner. No matter how long you’ve been together, there’s always more to learn. Ask about her thoughts, hopes, and even her daydreams. As years go by, people evolve – by staying interested in who your spouse is today (and not assuming they’re the same as years ago), you keep the relationship fresh and your partner feeling valued.
Embrace life’s changes as a team. Life will throw changes your way – new jobs, moving, health challenges, children, etc. Instead of resisting change or fighting it alone, face it together. Be willing to adjust roles and expectations. For example, if a new baby comes, maybe you take on more chores while she recovers, or if she gets a promotion, you might handle more child pickup duties. Flexibility and unity during transitions will make you both feel supported.
Keep learning how to be a better partner. Great husbands aren’t born; they’re made through effort and learning. Read books or articles about relationships, listen to marriage podcasts (even the Modern Husbands podcast for team-based ideas), or attend a workshop or couples retreat if you can. Treat it like continuing education for your most important partnership.
Make time for just the two of you. Between careers, kids, and other obligations, one-on-one time can dwindle. Protect that time. Whether it’s a nightly walk around the block, a Sunday morning coffee ritual, or a quarterly weekend trip, ensure you have regular time to reconnect as a couple, away from the daily grind.
Also maintain individual time and interests. A healthy marriage consists of two healthy individuals. Encourage each other to hang out with friends, pursue personal hobbies, and have some solitude when needed. Maintaining your friendships and interests outside marriage gives you support and keeps you energized – which in turn makes you a better spouse.
Prioritize health and wellness. Take care of yourself physically and mentally, and support your spouse in doing the same. Exercise, get enough sleep, and manage stress in healthy ways. Not only will you feel better, but you’ll also be able to bring your best self to the marriage. It’s much easier to be patient, kind, and attentive when you aren’t running on fumes or feeling unwell.
Practice daily gratitude. Take a moment each day to reflect on something you’re grateful for in your marriage. It could be as simple as “She always makes the coffee in the morning” or “We have a home full of love.” Share it with your spouse often: “I really appreciate that you did ___.” Cultivating gratitude shifts focus to the positive and creates a culture of appreciation at home.
Never take each other for granted. It’s easy to fall into routine and start assuming your partner will just always be there. Fight that complacency. Continue to court and compliment your spouse, notice the little things they do, and say thank you. When people feel appreciated and not taken for granted, love flourishes.
Keep the fun and friendship alive. Beyond love, like each other. Be silly together, have tickle fights, play games, or engage in activities you both enjoy. Laughter and play shouldn’t stop at adulthood – sharing lighthearted moments keeps your bond strong and enjoyable. Couples that laugh together, last together.
Face challenges side by side. When life gets hard – whether it’s financial strain, illness, or family issues – remember that you’re on the same side. Instead of withdrawing or blaming, huddle up and tackle the issue together. Say “We’ll figure this out” rather than “You need to fix this.” Knowing you have each other’s backs through anything boosts marital security.
Forgive each other. In a long marriage, you’ll both make mistakes. Maybe he forgot an anniversary or she said something hurtful in an argument. Hold onto the perspective that your relationship matters more than any one error. If you’ve talked it through and apologized, make a conscious choice to forgive and let it go. Carrying past grudges will only weigh you both down and stall the growth of your intimacy.
Show commitment, especially in tough times. It’s easy to be a great partner when everything is smooth. The real test is when things are difficult. Prove your dedication by staying supportive and loving even during crises or conflicts. Sometimes that means being the steady one when your spouse is falling apart, or seeking solutions rather than thinking of escape. Unwavering commitment and patience in adversity build a rock-solid marriage.
Welcome feedback and adapt. Maybe your wife points out that you’ve been distant or that she needs more help in a certain area. Instead of getting upset, use it as a roadmap for improvement. Thank her for being honest, and then actually work on the issue. Adaptability and willingness to change for the better are signs of a mature, growing partner.
Create shared traditions and future plans. Traditions could be as small as Friday pizza night or an annual anniversary getaway. These rituals give you both something to look forward to and strengthen your identity as a couple. Similarly, dream together about the future – whether it’s a trip next year or your vision for retirement. Planning and dreaming unite you toward common goals.
Be a person of your word. Over the years, trust is built (or broken) by consistent actions. If you promised you’ll handle the taxes, do it. If you agreed to cut back on a habit, follow through. When your spouse sees that you do what you say, it assures them that they can count on you, which is the bedrock of growing deeper in love.
Build a supportive community around your marriage. Spend time with friends or family members who respect your relationship and encourage your growth as a couple. Limit time with people who constantly bash their spouses or undermine marriage – that negativity can seep in. Instead, consider befriending other couples who share similar values; you can inspire and learn from each other.
Keep putting in effort. Think of marriage like a garden – it needs regular care. Small efforts done consistently (kind words, thoughtful gestures, quality time) will yield a beautiful relationship over time. Even when you’ve been together for decades, continue to learn, adjust, and show love. There’s no “auto-pilot” for being a great husband; the effort is continuous, but the rewards are endless.
Seek help when needed. If you hit a rough patch that you can’t navigate alone – maybe recurring fights or a big trust issue – don’t hesitate to reach out for help. This could mean reading marriage counseling books together, talking to a mentor couple, or seeing a professional therapist. There’s no shame in getting guidance to improve your marriage. In fact, it shows how committed you are to making things better. Strong couples take steps to fix issues; they don’t ignore them.

By embracing these tips in your daily life, you invest in the health and happiness of your marriage. Being a better husband isn’t about grand gestures (though those are nice too) – it’s mostly about the consistent, small things you do to show respect, love, and partnership.

Remember that marriage is a team sport: when both spouses give their all, both win. Keep communicating, keep sharing the load, keep planning your future together, and keep growing side by side. Over time, these efforts create a marriage that’s not only lasting, but fulfilling and full of love.

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