We wrote this post to save unknowing husbands from the nauseating experience of The Notebook, or any movie like it. Nevertheless – when it comes to movie nights, the rom-com genre might not always be our first choice but sometimes compromise is in order.Â
Start the conversation strong, perhaps proclaiming the American Pie series as chick flicks. After all, Stifler’s mom deserves love too. But if that doesn’t work, you can trust this list of thirteen to make both of you happy.Â
These picks strike a balance between romance and entertainment that won’t have you cringing, much. So, here’s a list of thirteen romantic comedies that even us husbands can tolerate – and maybe even enjoy:
1. "Wedding Crashers" (2005)
While this movie isn’t strictly a traditional romantic comedy, it's filled with humor and features Vaughn and Owen Wilson as friends who crash weddings to meet women. Romance and laughs ensue in this popular comedy.
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2. "Hitch" (2005)
This one's for the guys who appreciate a good laugh and some Will Smith charm. It’s got humor, a touch of romance, and plenty of witty one-liners.
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3. "Jerry Maguire" (1996)
In this classic, Jerry Maguire, a sports agent, has a crisis of conscience and starts his own agency with the only athlete who stays loyal, leading to personal and professional challenges as he rediscovers his values and love.
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4. "Bull Durham" (1988)
Kevin Costner plays the role of a seasoned minor league baseball player tasked with mentoring a talented but undisciplined rookie pitcher (Tim Robbins). Susan Sarandon plays a passionate fan who falls in love with both players. Although Vince Vaughn isn't in this movie, it's a witty, charming, and sometimes steamy romantic comedy set against baseball's backdrop.
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5. "The 40-Year-Old Virgin" (2005)
Okay, it might not scream romance, but it’s a hilarious take on love, relationships, and the struggles of being, well, a 40-year-old virgin.
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6. "Groundhog Day" (1993)
Bill Murray’s classic comedy has romance intertwined with its time loop storyline. It’s funny, clever, and surprisingly poignant.
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7. "Knocked Up" (2007)
A comedy that delves into unexpected pregnancy and the complexities of relationships, with plenty of laughs along the way.
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8. "Crazy, Stupid, Love" (2011)
Ryan Gosling and Steve Carell in one movie? Count us in! This film packs humor, genuine moments, and a storyline that’ll keep you engaged.
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9. "Long Shot" (2019)
A hilarious and unlikely romantic pairing occurs when a journalist reunites with his former babysitter, now a U.S. Secretary of State, as he becomes her speechwriter during her presidential campaign, sparking a delightful, unconventional love story.
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10. "50 First Dates" (2004)
Adam Sandler plays a man who falls for a woman (Drew Barrymore) with short-term memory loss. Every day, he has to make her fall in love with him anew. It’s sweet, funny, and heartfelt.
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11. "Four Christmases" (2008)
In this holiday-themed romantic comedy, Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon play a couple who attempt to visit all four of their divorced parents on Christmas Day. It’s a lighthearted yet poignant look at family dynamics and relationships.
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12. "Silver Linings Playbook" (2012)
Not your typical romantic comedy, but it’s got Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence navigating life’s challenges with humor and heart.
A must-watch for its raw and realistic take on relationships.
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13. "The Wedding Singer" (1998)
Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore team up in this ‘80s-themed romantic comedy filled with humor, catchy tunes, and genuine chemistry.
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So, there you have it – 13 romantic comedies that won’t make you cringe or check your watch every five minutes. Give these movies a shot next time you’re in for a movie night with your partner.Â
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