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Do Kids Make Us Happier?

Do Kids Make Us Happier?

It's a debate that never seems to go out of style: Does having kids make us happier, or is a child-free life the way to bliss?


"Activities are generally more enjoyable and meaningful with children than without."

At least, that's according to the Institute for Family Studies.


For instance, 56% of activities receive the highest meaningfulness ratings when children are around, compared to just 37% with other adults.


Moreover, 44% of parents report the highest happiness scores during activities with their kids, contrasting sharply with the 25% when alone.


The data suggests that even routine activities like eating, drinking, and socializing gain an extra layer of joy and significance when shared with children.


Do Kids Make Us Happier?

The results indicate that even amidst the challenges of parenting, there is a significant increase in well-being and meaningful interactions.


4 Fun and Frugal Ideas for Spending Time With Your Kids


1. Outdoor Movie Night


Turn your backyard into an open-air movie theater. This is a perfect way to enjoy a summer early night with your family and perhaps some of the families from the neighborhood.


Click here for the step-by-step instructions for making it happen.


2. Nature Scavenger Hunt


Scavenger hunts are the perfect way to get kids outside. This activity is free, educational, and fun, and most importantly, it breaks the kids away from their screens. Click here for specific ideas to use on your nature scavenger hunt.


3. DIY Water Park


Beat the heat by setting up a mini water park in your backyard. With a few inexpensive items, you can create a splash-tastic day for your family. I share the specifics of how to do so in this post.


4. Outdoor Park Games

Enjoy a day in the park with a family picnic and some classic outdoor games. Pack a lunch with sandwiches, fruits, and snacks, and bring along a blanket to relax on. Here are 11 games you can play while you're there.


  1. Frisbee

  2. Tag

  3. Hide and Seek

  4. Kickball

  5. Relay Races

  6. Capture the Flag

  7. Scavenger Hunt

  8. Tug-of-War

  9. Ring Toss

  10. Water Balloon Toss

  11. Bean Bag Toss (Cornhole)

What About a Child Free Life?


Having kids isn't for everyone. Couples should never feel pressured to live their lives a certain way. There are plenty of couples who love their childfree lives.



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