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I pulled together this Halloween checklist to make it easy for parents to prepare. But before diving into the practical stuff, I want to highlight the importance of rituals. Research shows that meaningful family rituals can improve marital satisfaction and ease early parenting stress. We share the same ritual as my friend Paul Sullivan of the Company of Dads: We always make chili for the evening. And I am a chili fanatic. If you're looking for a great chili recipe, here are m

People didn't talk about the mental load years ago. At least people weren't naming it. But of late, the term has ignited a national conversation. I credit women for bringing that conversation to the forefront, and it went viral because it spoke to their pain of not being seen for much of the work they do inside the home. Take, for instance, these survey results, which found that mothers handle 72.57% of the cognitive labor (mental load). And one of my more popular posts is a

Different genders have different problems, such as men feeling more pressure than women to be the breadwinner in a relationship. That feeling deep inside of us is real, even if our partners don't care whether we earn more or less. In the workforce, women feel pressure too, and in their case, it comes from external forces. The term "glass ceiling" often describes women having trouble climbing the corporate ladder, but I think "glass walls" is just as appropriate. I wrote this

I’m scared to death by what I just read. I spent 15 years as a classroom educator, and the global nosedive in test scores is terrifying, not just because of what’s happening to our children now, but because of the speed at which it’s getting worse. The real danger of AI isn’t the bubble it’s creating in the stock market; it’s the brain damage it’s doing to our children. Brain science shows that learning requires struggle. Learning only through tech makes it easier, and reduc

Gifting your children a solid start to their credit history opens up a world of financial opportunities and benefits. It not only increases their chances of being approved for loans and credit cards but also means they will likely receive lower interest rates, saving them a significant amount of money over time. It takes credit to build credit, not a debit card, a checking account, or a savings account. To build credit as a minor, your child must be listed on a credit-related

I am a massive soccer fan. I coached for decades, played and coached collegiately, and I follow the game professionally and domestically. Every four years, something remarkable happens. Nearly every corner of the world pauses to watch the same tournament. The FIFA Men’s World Cup isn't just the biggest sporting event on Earth—it's a month-long celebration of countries, cultures, traditions, and unforgettable moments. Whether your family lives and breathes soccer or couldn't e

Image Credit: Visual Capitalist Arguments happen in every relationship, but they don’t have to become a regular feature of your marriage. According to research shared by Visual Capitalist, the top four reasons American couples argue are: Tone of voice or attitude Money Communication styles Household chores At Modern Husbands, we help couples manage their daily finances and household responsibilities as a team. That means tackling the root causes of conflict before they spiral

When you talk to someone who has spent more than two decades helping families and organizations navigate the complex intersection of work and home, you listen closely. Jennifer Sabatini Fraone, MSW, MBA, has done exactly that during her time at the Boston College Center for Work and Family. For 35 years, the Center has been at the forefront of researching how employers can better support employees who are also caregivers. Through that work, Jennifer has developed a perspectiv

April is financial literacy month, a great time to discuss empowering our teens to be financially responsible. The financial pressures facing today’s teens and young adults are unlike anything past generations encountered. Entry-level jobs, once seen as stepping stones to independence, are increasingly being replaced by artificial intelligence. With fewer traditional opportunities to gain experience and earn income, it’s more important than ever for parents to intentionally r

Most couples enter parenthood with good intentions. They plan to share the work and assume they can “figure it out.” And then reality hits. In many households, child care quietly becomes uneven, not because one partner does not care, but because expectations were never thoroughly examined. New research shows something surprising and essential for couples. It is not how much child care one partner actually does that predicts dissatisfaction. It is what they expect to carry. Th

Super Bowl Party Three-Part Series Original Post: Feb 7, 2025; Updated Post: Feb 5, 2026 Your Guide to Super Bowl Gambling Games 10 Recipes or Grocery Grabs for Super Bowl Homegating Success 15 Super Bowl Party Family Activities Super Bowl parties are a fantastic opportunity for families to come together, enjoy the game, and engage in fun activities. Some choose to get together as adults and tip back more than a few. Others pull their families together, including their kids.

Money lessons come alive when financial concepts are introduced through stories, games, and real-world choices. Budgets stop being abstract. Decisions start to have meaning. And learners of all ages can begin to see how everyday choices shape their financial future. The tools below use play, storytelling, and simulation to make money skills tangible, memorable, and—yes—surprisingly engaging. Free Financial Education Games Money Magic From the game designer: “Money Magic teach

Lessons from Research, Real Couples, and Lived Experience Featuring insights from Dr. David Smith, Dr. Corinne Low, and Paul Sullivan. Released as a special edition of the Modern Husbands Podcast . Dual career couples are now the norm. Yet the way we talk about career advancement, caregiving, time, and household labor still reflects a world where one partner, almost always the woman, bends her life around the demands of work and family while the other, almost always the man,

Thanksgiving isn't easy for everyone. If you're concerned that you can't manage to be around certain people, you can choose to employ any of these 16 family gathering avoidance strategies. 🪑 Strategic Seating: Request or arrange seating that places you at a different table or at opposite ends from the person you wish to avoid. 📋 Volunteer for Tasks: Keep busy by helping in the kitchen, setting up tables, or managing the kids' area. 👩 Use Buffer Guests: Position closer fam

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For generations, dads have been expected to focus on their careers while moms carried the bulk of responsibilities at home. But as modern...