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For engaged and recently married couples who want to manage money and the home as a team.

Courses

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Love & Money

For Couples

For couples seeking financial therapy but want to try it themselves first.

Managing Client Conflict

For Financial Planners

Gain confidence managing client conflict around money. 

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Healthy Love & Money Starter Course

Understand why you fight about money and what you can do about it. 

The Couples Guide to Financial Intimacy

Improve your relationship with yourself, your partner and money. 

The Couples Guide to Financial Intimacy™

The comprehensive course for couples to transform their finances and intimate life.

Meet The Instructors

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Sonya Lutter

Ph.D., CFP®, LMFT

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Texas Tech University Professor of Practice, Director of Financial Health and Wellness School of Financial Planning

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Dr. Lutter serves as the inaugural Director of Financial Health and Wellness. She leads curriculum and continuing education opportunities in the areas of financial psychology, financial therapy, and financial behavior.

 

Sonya is also the owner of EnLite.World, a research and training consultancy firm for financial planners and therapists. She holds degrees from Kansas State University and Texas Tech University in marriage and family therapy and financial planning.

 

Sonya draws upon decades of experience in academia to apply theory to practice. Her developmental work in financial therapy is summarized in Financial Therapy: Theory, Research, and Practice with co-editors Drs. Brad Klontz and Kristy Archuleta. 

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Ed Coambs

CFP®, LMFT, CFT-I™

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Ed is a firefighter turned financial planner (CFP®) turned marriage and family financial therapist. He knows a lot about walking into high-intensity situations, navigating “the flames,” and walking everyone out safely. 

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With both formal education and personal experience in resolving conflicts, managing finances, developing emotional intimacy, and understanding family systems, he's an informed and empathetic guide along your love and money journey. Ed's goal is to help couples uncover and understand the roots underlying their financial conflicts and move towards financial intimacy.

 

Financial Planning + Financial Therapy + Couples Counseling = Healthy Love and Money.

 

Marriage Counselor; Author, Healthy Love and Money; Certified Financial Planner®; Licensed Marriage And Family Therapist North Carolina; Master of Arts in Counseling; Master of Business Administration (Finance Concentration)  

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Money Marriage U Course Instructors in the Media

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Financial planners have always known that clients have trouble implementing goals even when they have been clearly outlined and demonstrated. The part that’s been missing is the personal, behavioral element — a computer can’t just spit that out.
 
A lot of big firms now recognize this, and are starting to integrate behavioral training into their work.
 
- Dr. Sonya Lutter

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What you think you’re capable of achieving as an adult is often directly influenced by how much money your parents made when you were a child.
 
And your brain might not be able to let go of that idea — meaning that when you do find success, you might subconsciously sabotage yourself to get back to a place of financial familiarity.
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- Ed Coambs
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Opposites attract, and though it may be exciting for a saver to date a spender who’s happy to splurge on elaborate dinners and expensive jewelry, long-term relationships work best when built upon a shared set of values. Inherent in discussions about risk tolerance or the role money played in someone’s childhood is what money means to them. This matters because conversations about money at the beginning of a relationship can be predictive of satisfaction later on.
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- Dr. Sonya Lutter
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People who are in financial distress — such as hiding purchases, spending compulsively or avoiding their financial statements — definitely should seek help. But people who have a childhood with a lot of conflict about money or have disorders such as obsessive compulsive disorder or post-traumatic stress disorder may also want to consider if that is impacting their financial well-being as well.

Ed Coambs

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Atlanta, GA 30309

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Individual / Couple Support: $140- $180 per session

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